The Power of Love

by David Sunfellow




In the twenty-first century
the real frontier will not be space,
or the oceans' floors,
or telecommunications,
or genetic engineering,
or a thousand other external pursuits.
It will be human relations.

Hugh & Gayle Prather, from the book

I Will Never Leave You


It is my firm belief that our world is on the brink of a major revelation. And that new revelation is that human relationships hold the key to our personal and collective happiness. Learning to love one another has, of course, always been important. But in ages past, love was important more from a standpoint of survival than personal fulfillment. People needed to love, accept and forgive one another so that societies could survive and flourish. It had very little to do with attaining personal happiness.
Many cultures were, in fact, so out of touch with the power of love and the potential of human relationships that they insisted that happiness could only be found by severing one's ties with other human beings. The true path back to God, these cultures maintained, was a solitary one. Whether we lived in caves, atop mountains, in monasteries or in tiny little apartments in the city, in order to find God we were required to live a life detached from deep relationships with other human beings.
Now, however, after having experimented for centuries with such thinking, an increasing number of people are realizing that solitary lifestyles not only leave deep needs for human companionship unfulfilled, but they also leave huge parts of our personality untouched and unhealed. The great revelation of our time is that the answer to almost all of what ails humanity, may, after all, be looking at us from across the table. Perhaps Jesus, who only gave one commandment, put his finger on the only thing we really need to do: 'love one another.'

And Jesus is not alone. The growing phenomenon of near-death experiences have repeatedly stressed the profound importance of love and relationships. According to these experiences, our success or failure as human beings is measured almost entirely in terms of how well we love. A growing number of psychologists, therapists and healers also affirm the importance of love and relationships. And, perhaps most important of all, there are the brave souls in trenches: in spiritual communities, in marriages, in groups that are sincerely seeking to follow Spirit. They, too, affirm that all paths eventually lead to love; love, they all agree, is the means to the end as well as the end itself.

So what does all this mean? I believe it means the time has finally come for those of us who really want to find peace and happiness, who hunger to return to God, to embrace the path of relationships. To open our hearts and minds to love, to marriage, to communities, to exploring the depths of other human beings. This is where real healing and transformation lies.

To be sure, learning to love one another is a messy, painful, confusing business. But if we do the difficult work of removing the blocks within us that keep us separated from one another, glorious experiences await us. We can, I believe, expect not only to have deeply fulfilling human relationships while living here, in this world, but we can also expect to transcend all time, space and ordinary human limitations. Some of us may, in fact, have already caught a glimpse of what awaits us....

....thread continued in Real Life Commentary: 8/1/95 ...


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